Am I survivor or a fighter... or am I both? So this is something I have given a lot of thought to and since writing this post I've realised that, after everything I've been through, I am a 'Fusion of a Fighter and Survivor'. In the cancer community some class themselves as survivors and some… Continue reading A Fusion of a Fighter and Survivor
I've been prompted to write this post after being asked to talk on BBC Radio Lincolnshire's Melvyn Prior show about cancer and hair loss. I also tuned into the Jeremy Vine show on BBC Radio Two as they too were discussing it.When Victoria Derbyshire took her wig off in her video diary my mind flashed… Continue reading The Reality of Chemo Hair loss – ‘It Just Isn’t Me’
My family and I know first hand how unbelievably tough fighting Leukaemia is and as a Bloodwise Ambassador my husband, sister, brother in law and I were invited to a special showing of Tim Firth's and Gary Barlow's The Girls Musical at the Phoenix Theatre in London's West End. Having heard lots of great things… Continue reading Toe tapping, nudity, tears & laughter at The Girls Musical
This story is not just about a group of women who sold lots of nude calendars. What really comes across in the musical is a community coming together and women overcoming various personal challenges with the aim to help others in their darkest hour. I feel nothing but admiration not only for the original ladies but also the actresses who were naked on stage.
Am I really doing the right thing by lying to my child about the reality of life? This question often comes into my mind, are we really doing the right thing by protecting our children from the realities of life? Probably because of what my family has been through due to my Leukaemia battle it's… Continue reading The Truth… To Tell or Not To Tell?
As more and more time goes by I seem to come across more and more evidence that those who've had a cancer diagnosis and those who haven't live in two very different worlds. I spend a lot of my time having to explain myself, justify my behaviours and the way I live my life now… Continue reading What not to say to someone with cancer; Why you shouldn’t use the ‘Hit by a Bus’ analogy
While I was in hospital going through the extremely brutal Leukaemia treatment I spent a lot of time fantasising about how great my life would be once my body went into remission! Well surprisingly I am still waiting for that rush of euphoria I dreamed of! Maybe a few years down the line, five years,… Continue reading Remission – Running Forever!